A Night at the Queerium (Ripley's Aquarium in Toronto)

 Was It Worth It? 

Recently, I finally made it out to The Queerium—(at the Ripley's Aquarium in Toronto), this was a venue I’d been hearing a lot of buzz about. As a straight female, I have always been someone who’s always supported the 2SLGBTQ+ community, so I was genuinely excited to check it out. 

I didn’t go in expecting Vegas-level glitz, but for the $76 ticket price, I did expect something beyond just access to the space.

And that’s the thing—it was literally just entry. No drink ticket. No food. No perks. Just... the use of the venue.

Still, I was determined to have fun. My friend decided to order a “Sugar Daddy” (adorable name, right?). But she asked them to skip the grape juice mixer, and they replaced it with three shots of gin - to fill the glass. Great, until we saw the bill: $40 for one drink. I wish I was kidding.  Don't worry she got a refund for the 2 additional shots :)

As for the show, the lineup was supposed to feature 3 or 4 drag acts. Only two queens performed: JUICE BOX and BOA. Their energy was decent, but their sets were short—about 15 minutes in total. They lip-synced to the usual Gaga go-tos, “Born This Way” and “Bad Romance,” which felt tired and a little too on the nose. The rest of the evening was filled by two male dancers, who gave it their all but were clearly exhausted after 2 hours of nonstop movement.

 

I really wanted to love it. I came open-minded and ready to celebrate drag culture. But I left feeling a bit let down. Maybe my expectations were too high, or maybe it’s just that the experience didn’t match the price tag or the promise.

That said, I’m curious—have you been to the Queerium or a similar venue recently? Was your experience different? Am I being too harsh, or did I just catch an off night?

Let me know in the comments. I’d really love to hear your take—especially if you’re part of the scene or a regular at these events.  Maybe there's more to the Queerium than I saw.

Blossoms & Serenity: A Walk Through Japan at Kariya Park

Tucked away in the western part of Toronto in the city of Mississauga, lies a hidden gem that transforms into a breathtaking slice of Japan every spring—Kariya Park.

As cherry blossom season arrives, Kariya Park bursts into delicate shades of soft pink and white, drawing in visitors from everywhere. After a long, grey winter, this is a sign that spring is finally in the air.  Suddenly people are smiling, it feels wonderful and this place is impossibly beautiful.  I am not totally antisocial, but there are there places where you would love to visit all by yourself.  Because there are so many people it's hard not to find that peace and serenity you would find if you were along here.  After awhile you start feeling like a tourist, but if you wait until the crowd disperses you can still catch a photo or two.  After all, this is a place to be enjoyed by everyone.

The park is named after Mississauga’s sister city in Japan, is a peaceful Japanese-style garden located at 3620 Kariya Drive. 

Despite being in the middle of a busy downtown, it feels completely removed from the mainstream. You enter through a modest gate and are immediately surrounded by traditional Japanese elements—stone lanterns, wooden bridges, koi ponds, and perfectly manicured bonsai trees.

But it's during cherry blossom season, typically in late April to early May, that the park becomes truly magical. 

The sakura trees, a gift from Kariya, Japan, bloom in full glory for just a few days, and during that time, the park becomes alive with joyful visitors. Couples pose under blossoms, families enjoy quiet picnics, and photographers scramble to capture that perfect petal-fall moment.

There's something universally uplifting about cherry blossoms. Maybe it’s the reminder that beauty is fleeting, or maybe it’s just how the petals flutter like confetti in the breeze. Whatever it is, you can feel a collective happiness in the air. Strangers smile at each other. Everyone slows down.

If you’ve ever dreamed of visiting Japan in cherry blossom season but haven’t made it yet—Kariya Park offers a little piece of that experience right here in Ontario.

Have you been to Kariya Park during cherry blossom season? What did you love most? Drop your thoughts or photos in the comments—I’d love to hear from you!