A Night at the Queerium (Ripley's Aquarium in Toronto)

 Was It Worth It? 

Recently, I finally made it out to The Queerium—(at the Ripley's Aquarium in Toronto), this was a venue I’d been hearing a lot of buzz about. As a straight female, I have always been someone who’s always supported the 2SLGBTQ+ community, so I was genuinely excited to check it out. 

I didn’t go in expecting Vegas-level glitz, but for the $76 ticket price, I did expect something beyond just access to the space.

And that’s the thing—it was literally just entry. No drink ticket. No food. No perks. Just... the use of the venue.

Still, I was determined to have fun. My friend decided to order a “Sugar Daddy” (adorable name, right?). But she asked them to skip the grape juice mixer, and they replaced it with three shots of gin - to fill the glass. Great, until we saw the bill: $40 for one drink. I wish I was kidding.  Don't worry she got a refund for the 2 additional shots :)

As for the show, the lineup was supposed to feature 3 or 4 drag acts. Only two queens performed: JUICE BOX and BOA. Their energy was decent, but their sets were short—about 15 minutes in total. They lip-synced to the usual Gaga go-tos, “Born This Way” and “Bad Romance,” which felt tired and a little too on the nose. The rest of the evening was filled by two male dancers, who gave it their all but were clearly exhausted after 2 hours of nonstop movement.

 

I really wanted to love it. I came open-minded and ready to celebrate drag culture. But I left feeling a bit let down. Maybe my expectations were too high, or maybe it’s just that the experience didn’t match the price tag or the promise.

That said, I’m curious—have you been to the Queerium or a similar venue recently? Was your experience different? Am I being too harsh, or did I just catch an off night?

Let me know in the comments. I’d really love to hear your take—especially if you’re part of the scene or a regular at these events.  Maybe there's more to the Queerium than I saw.

Blossoms & Serenity: A Walk Through Japan at Kariya Park

Tucked away in the western part of Toronto in the city of Mississauga, lies a hidden gem that transforms into a breathtaking slice of Japan every spring—Kariya Park.

As cherry blossom season arrives, Kariya Park bursts into delicate shades of soft pink and white, drawing in visitors from everywhere. After a long, grey winter, this is a sign that spring is finally in the air.  Suddenly people are smiling, it feels wonderful and this place is impossibly beautiful.  I am not totally antisocial, but there are there places where you would love to visit all by yourself.  Because there are so many people it's hard not to find that peace and serenity you would find if you were along here.  After awhile you start feeling like a tourist, but if you wait until the crowd disperses you can still catch a photo or two.  After all, this is a place to be enjoyed by everyone.

The park is named after Mississauga’s sister city in Japan, is a peaceful Japanese-style garden located at 3620 Kariya Drive. 

Despite being in the middle of a busy downtown, it feels completely removed from the mainstream. You enter through a modest gate and are immediately surrounded by traditional Japanese elements—stone lanterns, wooden bridges, koi ponds, and perfectly manicured bonsai trees.

But it's during cherry blossom season, typically in late April to early May, that the park becomes truly magical. 

The sakura trees, a gift from Kariya, Japan, bloom in full glory for just a few days, and during that time, the park becomes alive with joyful visitors. Couples pose under blossoms, families enjoy quiet picnics, and photographers scramble to capture that perfect petal-fall moment.

There's something universally uplifting about cherry blossoms. Maybe it’s the reminder that beauty is fleeting, or maybe it’s just how the petals flutter like confetti in the breeze. Whatever it is, you can feel a collective happiness in the air. Strangers smile at each other. Everyone slows down.

If you’ve ever dreamed of visiting Japan in cherry blossom season but haven’t made it yet—Kariya Park offers a little piece of that experience right here in Ontario.

Have you been to Kariya Park during cherry blossom season? What did you love most? Drop your thoughts or photos in the comments—I’d love to hear from you!

 

Step Back in Time: Exploring Toronto's Spadina House Museum

Inside Toronto’s Hidden Gem: A Glimpse Into Spadina House Museum

Have you ever wondered what life was like for Toronto’s elite a century ago? Just steps from Casa Loma, Spadina House offers a quieter, more personal journey into the city’s past — and it’s totally free to visit.

Perched atop Davenport Hill, Spadina House invites visitors into the elegance of early 20th-century Toronto. Built in 1866 by financier James Austin, founder of The Dominion Bank, the mansion was home to three generations of the Austin family until 1982.

The name “Spadina” comes from the Anishnaabemowin word ishpadina, meaning “highland” or “ridge” — a perfect fit for its location overlooking the city.

Today, the Spadina Museum has been lovingly restored to reflect life from the 1900s to the 1930s. Each room is a visual treat, blending Victorian, Edwardian, Art Nouveau, Art Deco, and Colonial Revival design. The six-acre gardens are just as impressive, restored to their 1905 glory — and a perfect photo spot in spring and summer.

While Casa Loma gets all the attention, Spadina House offers something its glamorous neighbour can’t: peace, charm, and authenticity. Many original furnishings remain, each telling its own story of Toronto’s upper class.

We visited on a sunny afternoon and were treated to a guided tour by the friendly onsite staff. And the best part? Admission was free!

If you're planning a trip to Casa Loma, I highly recommend walking just a few minutes further to Spadina House. It’s like discovering a secret — and it’s well worth the detour.

Have you been to Spadina House? What caught your eye — the décor, the garden, the view? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

 

Road Trip to Collingwood and Owen Sound

Remember when you were a kid and there was always that one unplanned trip with your folks that turned out to be the most memorable.  Or the trip that started out the worst you know the large cottage rental that was actually a one room shack and no working stove ending up being the best?

I've experienced a lot of those memories.  It makes you realize that it's not really what you have or where you go, it's who you're with that make these memories stick.

A Detour-Filled Adventure to Collingwood & Owen Sound
We hit the road again! I had every detail of our summer road trip carefully planned weeks in advance—but true to form, we tossed most of it out the window and still ended up having an incredible time.

Day 1: Caves, Sushi, and a Swinging Decision

We set off bright and early Sunday morning, rental car packed and stomachs empty—intentionally, since our first stop was Kiticho Sushi in Collingwood. No breakfast. We were saving every inch of appetite for the all-you-can-eat sushi feast (check out our review at aycetoronto.blogspot.ca).

After lunch, we checked into a local motel for two nights and made our way to one of the highlights of the trip: Scenic Caves Nature Adventures in the Blue Mountains.

Perched atop the Niagara Escarpment, this place is a fascinating mix of geological history and outdoor adventure. The caves and crevices were formed over 450 million years ago, and walking through them feels like stepping into the pages of an ancient story.

Though it was July, we learned this area transforms into a winter wonderland come snow season, offering over 27 km of ski trails and 8 km of snowshoe routes—including a path that leads to Southern Ontario’s longest suspension footbridge. And yes—we crossed it.

Well… eventually. My husband nearly chickened out, hesitant at the sight of the rope-lined bridge swaying above the forest floor. But just when it seemed like I’d be finishing the hike solo, he mustered the courage to join me, and we met at the other end grinning like kids who’d just conquered a rollercoaster.

Day 2: Waterfalls & Fresh Air in Owen Sound

The next morning, we headed to Owen Sound, a hidden gem for waterfall lovers. Our goal? Visit Inglis Falls, Indian Falls, and Jones Falls—all just minutes apart, but each offering a unique view and hiking experience.

We hiked, wandered, and soaked in the peaceful sounds of cascading water. There’s something grounding about being surrounded by forest and rock, with nothing but the sound of waterfalls to drown out the noise of everyday life.

We wrapped up with another AYCE stop—this time at Okinawa Sushi in Owen Sound (yes, we reviewed it too: aycetoronto.blogspot.ca).

By the end of the trip, we were sun-tired, satisfied, and deeply recharged. No airports. No customs. No chaos. Just two people reconnecting with nature—and with each other—on Ontario’s back roads.

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Sometimes, the best adventures happen when the plan goes out the window.
Have you ever gone on a spontaneous or semi-planned road trip?
Tell us your favourite road trip story in the comments—I'd love to hear where the open road has taken you!